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Stillness
In mindfulness we embrace
stillness. Stillness leads to clarity. If puddle of muddy
water is left undisturbed for a period of time, it
eventually becomes clear on it own as dirt particles settle to the
bottom. Clarity is an addition by subtraction-- we value
what is not there rather than what is there. Just as clear
water is a potential of a muddy puddle, a clear mind is a
potential of mental clutter. When we breathe
mindfully and observe the arising and passing of our
thoughts, without resisting or clinging to them, our mental
turbidity will gradually decrease, leaving a clear mind that
dwells in stillness.
If we were lost in the woods and came across a small muddy
puddle of water, we would be wise to wait patiently until
the mud settles before drinking from it. To still the mind
also requires patience. In the same way that agitating a
puddle of water with a stick makes it muddy, we muddle our
minds by getting caught up in our thoughts. Getting involved
in thoughts saps our energy and contributes to the restless
chatter in our heads. If we can gain some degree of
detachment from our mental phenomena, our thoughts and
feelings will come and go without taking hold of our minds.
The mind then calms on its own.
Stillness implies a state of being rather than one of doing.
Most of the time our minds are busy doing something, such as
processing thoughts, memories, emotional impulses, and so
on. All too often we get so consumed by our mental
preoccupations that we are not aware of much else.
Mindfulness does not mean that we should suppress our
thoughts and feelings in any way-- just that we should be
aware of them as they arise. When we're thinking, we should
be aware that we're thinking; when we're remembering, we
should be aware that we're remembering; when we're feeling
upset, we should be aware that we're feeling upset. By
keeping watch on our mental contents, we subtly shift our
attention away from our mental doings toward the vast,
sacred silence that is our inner being. When our awareness
is centered on inner being, we become more human, more
alive. After all, we are human beings, not human automatons.
Stillness is the essence of infinite happiness and lasting
contentment. Some people travel to exotic destinations to
look for happiness and excitement. The sheer strangeness and
wonder of the new place may shock their senses into the
excitement they seek. But this temporary excitement should
not to be mistaken for true, lasting happiness. True
happiness does not require us to travel to a beautiful
tropical island half the world away. It is here now. Finding
it is just a matter of waking up to the present moment.
This awakening requires that the mind be still. When the
mind is still, it has no interest in grasping to things-- it
is content in itself. Being content in itself means nothing
else has to happen (i.e., we need not book a trip to some
exotic island). Arriving at the present moment is the direct
path to true happiness and contentment.
Clearing the mind does not leave us with an empty head, but
one brimming with awareness. This expanded awareness is the
capacity for clear seeing and clear thinking not possible
with a cluttered mind. We gain communion with the inner
stillness from which all diversity is born. If we do not
have clear comprehension of this sacred stillness, but
instead attempt to grapple with its 1001 expressions, life
may seem too complex and chaotic to make any sense to us.
Stillness is a spiritual reality, not a concept to dissect
intellectually. We often liken spirituality to a path. A
path implies traversing space and time. Yet, if we follow a
spiritual path diligently, all that it can take us to is the
here and now. That is, the goal of a spiritual quest is to
arrive at where we are now. Spirituality is not so much
about traveling through space and time as it about gaining
clear comprehension of them. Spirituality is both the
journey and the goal, and when we succeed, we awaken to our
True Essence.
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